Holidays break the routine of the whole year, and that is a good thing. But children still need some structure, and expectations that are too high usually end in frustration for everyone.

Before you go

  • Involve them. Letting them choose an activity makes them feel part of the plan.
  • Explain what will happen. Where we will sleep, how long the journey is, what we will do on the first day.
  • Fit the plan to their age. Fewer visits and more free time.

During the holiday

  • Keep a minimum of routine, especially for sleep and meals, even if it is more flexible.
  • Leave time with nothing planned. Boredom is the starting point for play and creativity.
  • Agree on screen use before you start, including the adults'.
  • Plan for long journeys: games, music, stops.

Realistic expectations

There will be squabbles between siblings, a rainy day and the odd moment of tiredness. That does not mean the holiday has gone wrong.

Coming back

Gradually getting back to the usual timetable a few days before school starts makes the transition much smoother.

What children remember most is usually not the place, but having had us there for them.